She says we can date and have our ?lil flings? but we shouldn?t have the right to get married. Well, that is how it?s always been; our relationships are not taken seriously. We grew up around girls like this. Girls/Women have our ?lil flings? and we are consigned to having adolescent relationships. The idea of marriage has never been a part of gay people?s lives. We have always been denied basic participation in one of the foundations of life and civilization. We don?t see our relationships as ultimately leading to marriage so our relationships aren?t conducted like straight relationships. Too many of them are juvenile. When marriage started to seem like a reality we were like wow, I would NEVER marry this so ?n? so bitch. Just being with someone for years and years without getting married isn?t something straight people do often and when it does happen it?s usually a woman who is a sad sack and stays with a man who won?t marry her. But a woman who stayed with a man for years who wouldn?t marry her would get pressure from her family and friends to leave the a-hole because marriage IS the ultimate goal. The moment marriage seemed like it could be a reality, we saw our relationships so much more clearly. Sure there are plenty of gay people who have set up ?adult? relationships and create a family but it doesn?t hold the same value or weight in our society as MARRIAGE.
She?s also spouting bullshit about girls wanting to go down on her to demonstrate how ?hot? she is. Everyone wants her p*ssy. THEN she goes on to talk about how some pussies smell but hers doesn?t. We have a HUGE problem with all of the p*ssy shame and how p*ssies are supposed to be gross. That is also very adolescent. Being grossed out by p*ssy. You SHOULD be grossed out by ANYONE?S random genitals. You shouldn?t be s*cking and f*cking random p*ssy OR c*ck. But this gross whorey adolescent bi bullshit that has infected the Lesbian community makes us nauseous. Yeah when we were 14 we were afraid of someone going down on us too. We too were skeeved by p*ssy because of everything we were bombarded with day in and day out. We internalized ALL the bullshit dumped on us as little girls just like every other little girl. Then we got girlfriends and grew the fuck up and stopped feeling like p*ssy was gross. We still think any random person?s genitals ARE gross because we shouldn?t have some random genitals in our mouths. It?s not ok to just s*ck c*ck and p*ssy at the club or after the club. Go have your experiences whatever, we all have,? but that isn?t how sex is supposed to work and those experiences should teach you that if you didn?t already know it.
They force us to be adolescents by denying us marriage. Too many gay people are SO immature. We don?t have the privilege of actually growing up fully and participating in respected adult relationships. Sure in some ways we do and can but one of the basic elements that makes people grow up and be respected as full adults is denied us. We are less important. Our relationships, by DEFAULT, less important. We?re all playing house, we aren?t starting our own family. A straight couple married w/o children are respected AS a family. As a unit, their commitment TO each other is more important than their commitments TO the family they were born into. We are denied this and that is wrong? and it?s insulting to hear anyone, let alone a bitch like this, say we don?t deserve to be adults and participate in society the way she eventually will.
If we didn?t know better we?d think she was auditioning for a fake pundit job on right wing media. An anti-gay bisexual who thinks she?s way hotter than she is giving bigots permission to be anti-gay. She?s a sure hire.
Tags: Anti-gay bisexual, Jersey Shore, marriage equality
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