Thursday, May 31, 2012

Unruly 3-year-old kicked off Alaska Air flight

By A. Pawlowski, msnbc.com contributor

Alaska Airlines ordered a screaming, squirming toddler off a plane over Memorial Day weekend when he would not stay buckled in his seat.

The incident happened Saturday night on a flight from Seattle to Miami -- the first leg of a long journey to the Virgin Islands for Mark Yanchuk, a computer salesman from Everett, Wash., his wife, mother-in-law and two small children.


The family was allowed to board early and they split up once on the plane. Yanchuk and his 3-year-old son, Daniel, sat in the main cabin, while his wife, mother-in-law and one-year-old child took their seats in first class.

Daniel played with an iPad until passengers were asked to turn off their electronic devices and Yanchuk took the gadget away.

?He got a little bit cranky, started screaming, maybe yelling a little bit, crying,? Yanchuk told msnbc.com.

?During this whole time I?m trying to put him in his seat and his seat belt. I put the seat belt on him but not all the way, so I?m struggling to put in on and he?s still yelling.?

Alaska Airlines spokesman Paul McElroy said flight attendants came to check on the father and the boy several times before departure to try to help calm the child down, but Daniel was restless and wouldn?t get buckled in.

?Everybody wanted to make this work, just trying to work with the child and get him to sit upright,? McElroy said.

?He kept lying down in his seat, his legs were dangling over the arm rest. At one point, we did have the seat belt fastened but because the child was lying down, now the belt was across his neck and the flight attendants were worried that he would begin to choke himself.?

Yanchuk disputes that account, saying he would never allow his son to get into such a precarious position. He said he tried to calm Daniel down, but couldn?t do it as well as his wife, who was far away.

When the boy finally sat up, the plane pushed back from the gate. But then a flight attendant noticed that the child was lying down in his seat again, so the captain was notified and decided to return to the gate, McElroy said.

?We certainly regret the inconvenience to this family, but the flight crew in their best judgment did make the necessary decision to direct the family to take another flight,? McElroy said, adding it was a safety issue.

Yanchuk and his son were asked to leave. His wife, mother-in-law and one-year-old child were told they could continue the trip, but the family didn?t want to split up, so all five disembarked.

Alaska Airlines offered to rebook them on the same flight the next day, but Yanchuk declined, saying he would be uncomfortable flying the airline again. The family will receive a refund for the flight, McElroy said. Their baggage, which continued on to the Virgin Islands, will be returned soon. The vacation is canceled for now and Yanchuk is still trying to figure out what went wrong.

?I think they overreacted. I know you get kicked off planes for dangerous situations like not wearing a seat belt or running around or something dangerous. But I didn?t see the situation as being dangerous at all,? Yanchuk said.

The next time he flies with Daniel, Yanchuk plans to keep the family seated more closely together and try to distract the toddler more, he added.

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Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Having Breast Cancer is not the End of the World

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You are depressed enough because of breast cancer. You are afraid that you cannot win the battle against one of the most threatening cancers. Well, you do not have to act like that. There are some ways to make your life better. At least, you do not think about your breast cancer all the time. One easiest thing to do is stay positive. You do not have to think too much. There are more patients with worst conditions. They cannot eat, sleep or even smile. You are more lucky right? Therefore, you need be grateful since you have more opportunities.

Next, you can search more information about breast cancer. There is a saying, ?you can have more confidence if you know your opponent?. Yes, that is right. Do not let this cancer beat you. It is more important to know more facts about breast cancer. Who knows that you can find a more effective way to heal your current condition? It is easy to find the needed information. You can search them in the internet. In addition, you can go to the library so that you can refresh your mind and get more knowledge about your disease from books or magazines.

What about going to beautiful places? Having breast cancer is not the end of the world. Your doctor might allow you to see the beautiful sceneries outside the boring hospital walls. It is really refreshing to see flying birds, blue sky, colorful flowers and many others. Moreover, you need to find positive circle that can helps you when you are down and depressed because of your disease. Meeting the breast cancer survivors is really good for you. It is for sure that you can learn a lot of life lessons from the survivors. They can inspire you to be a braver person.

Furthermore, you can meet your friends who also have breast cancer. No, you are not allowed to grief and weep. You meet your friends to support each other. There is no time for you to think junk thoughts. It is really useless. Instead of doing such things, you are suggested to make a diary. You can share your feelings, thoughts, or anything you want. Moreover, you are allowed to do your hobbies. Do not let the breast cancer stop you from your favorite activities. You can do whatever you want as long as you do not harm your health. So, enjoy your precious life.

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Looking for a Job? Take the Initiative! | The Art of Manliness

This month, nearly 2 million students left colleges and universities around the country with a bachelor?s degree in hand. Some will be headed to graduate school, while others will be entering the job market, many hoping to land their first ?real? job. At the same time, 3 million high school graduates have started looking for a summer gig?perhaps their first job ever. Joining them in the job hunt are the millions of Americans who have been laid off, are unemployed, and have been looking to get hired for weeks, months, even years.

What all these folks have in common is that they?re searching for a job in a tough economy. While experts debate whether things are looking up or whether we?re headed for even worse times, the reality for job seekers out there is that competition is tight. The plumb jobs will go to the bright, to those who are well-connected and know how to network, and, most of all?to those who know how to hustle.

Too many men see the job search as a passive process. They spend each day at home on the computer, trolling Monster.com and other job sites, submitting their resumes, and then waiting to get a call requesting an interview. And waiting. And waiting.

The job you want is very unlikely to land in your lap this way. Instead, the job will go to the man hitting the pavement?the man who takes the initiative. Here are some tips on how to grab the bull by the horns when you?re looking for a job.

Note: Obviously, one of the best ways to take the initiative in finding work is to start your own biz. But the focus of this article will be landing a job with someone else.

Hand in Your Resume in Person

The surest way to remain unemployed is to be like the guy mentioned above?submitting your resumes online and then sitting on your hands waiting for a call. HR departments are like employment Bermuda Triangles?your resume gets sent to who knows where to be read by who knows who, if at all. And even if your resume does get read, what will differentiate it from the hundreds of others in the stack?

Instead, if it?s possible, print out your resume/cover letter/application, and go in person to hand it to whomever is responsible for hiring (the hiring manager, your potential supervisor, the head of the department, etc.) for the job you want. Figuring out who is responsible for hiring can be difficult at large, faceless corporations, but often can be done by looking online and making some calls.

This is how I have gotten most of the jobs I?ve had in my life. In each instance, the person was pleased with my initiative, interviewed me right on the spot, and, in some cases, offered me the job right then and there.

Obviously, handing in your resume in person works better for lower-level jobs than more professional ones, but it can be effective in a variety of situations. Awhile back, AoM Community member Ben D. posted an awesome little article on the Community blog about how he landed a job as a respiratory therapist by using this method:

?When my wife and I moved to Chicago, we had no connections here. No jobs, no family, and minimal money. The assumption was that I would be able to find a job in short order. Before we moved, I updated my resume, applied online to many jobs, and then sat back and waited.

When the move was over and we had settled in, I still did not have a job. I had a couple of leads, but they were at companies that are considered resume stains in my profession. Still, a crappy job beats no job, so I bit the bullet, called the hiring manager, and got hired at the Resume Stain.

After one shift I had had enough. While the people were nice, the job and the company were crap. I began formulating plans for my escape. I applied to more jobs online and then waited. That is how one applies for a job, right?

Wrong. I was listening to public radio and a story came on about how people seeking work would fill out online applications, post their resume to Monster, and then just wait for a job to fall into their laps. Listening to this it struck me how absurd and un-manly that was. Unless you can poop golden eggs, you are just one faceless resume in a sea of thousands. I decided to get my job the manly way: with hard work, initiative, and elbow grease.

I printed my resume, wrote a custom cover letter for the company I was applying to, and signed it in pen. I folded these items up into an envelope and addressed it to the hiring manager, put on my good suit and tie, and drove down to the company.

It struck me that what I was about to do?to cold-call a hiring manager?was risky. He could be in a bad mood or out of the office. Any number of bad things could happen. But I wanted this job, and I had nothing to lose.

I choked down my nerves, straightened my tie, put on a big confident smile, and strode through the doors. A little sniffing around brought me to the manager?s office.?I knocked on the door, introduced myself with a big smile and a handshake, and before he knew it he had my resume and cover letter in his hands. I explained myself. ?Just didn?t want to be another face in the crowd, thought I?d take a little initiative and stop by in person.? He sat me down for an interview, and an hour later I left with a promise from him that he?d be in touch.

A few days later I got a phone call and a job offer. Soon, I will be employed at a company that I respect and that has a great reputation. I got the job I actually wanted, not just one I was randomly hired for from the internet. I got a good job at a good company, and I got to make that critical first impression a good one, all by eschewing the trappings of the internet job hunt for the old-fashioned manly way of getting a job. Another victory for manliness!?

Another victory for manliness, indeed, Ben. And to the victor go the spoils.

Follow Up!

Whether you submit your resume online or hand it over in person, your job is not yet done. Now you must follow up! Hiring managers have a lot on their plate, as do department heads and supervisors for whom hiring is just one small part of what they do. So show your sincere interest in the job by following up with an email or phone call.

If a job posting gave a deadline for the application window, then follow up a couple of days after the deadline passes?following up before then will make you seem impatient. When you follow up, say something like, ?Because the deadline for x job closed on June 11, I assume that applications have begun to be reviewed. I just wanted to express my sincere interest in the position. My [couple of key qualities] would make me a great fit for the job.? If you can find out something about the company?s culture or the kind of people the hiring manager likes to hire, then mention your connection to those things.

If the job posting didn?t have a deadline, then wait a week to ten days after you submit your application to follow up. Then give the hiring manager a call, and say something like, ?My name is Bob Smith and I submitted my resume on June 11 for X job, and I was wondering if the position had been filled yet. No? Well, [express interest in job + a couple of things that make you well qualified for it].

If you?ve done an interview with the company, but haven?t heard back from them within the time frame they gave you (and make sure to ask for a timeline at the end of the interview if they don?t tell you), then the day after the original time frame expires, follow up with a phone call or email reaffirming your interest in the job, saying politely that you realize the hiring process can take awhile, and inquiring if they could give you an updated timeline on when they will be making a decision.

If the company didn?t give you a timeline to begin with, then wait a week and a half after your interview before following up.

Whether you?re following up on a submitted application or on an interview, keep it to two attempts. If you don?t get an answer on the first follow-up, send an email a week later. Still no answer? Move on.

?Apply? for Unadvertised Jobs and Jobs That Don?t Yet Exist

Many of the very best jobs out there will never show up in the classifieds. The company doesn?t advertise the positions publicly and instead hires friends, internal employees, or folks they have worked with or heard about in other capacities. So you?ll never get these gigs by waiting around for a job posting to show up. Instead, you have to take the initiative!

If there?s some place you want to work, and some position you?re hoping to get, send an email with your resume to the person you think would be in charge of hiring for that position. Tell them that if the job opens up, you?d love to be considered and why you?re qualified for the position.

You should put yourself out there even if a position or job you want doesn?t yet exist, or if you?re a freelancer hoping to pick up a new client who doesn?t even know he needs your services yet. Get a feel for what the company does currently, and where they could use help or could potentially expand, and then contact them and offer your services, giving them a specific idea of something you could do for them. Tell them you?re a big fan of what they do (hopefully this is actually true) and that you would be willing to do a project for them free of charge or at a discount to give back; doing something new is a risky proposition for the potential client, so they?ll be much more willing to give you a go if it won?t cost them much. Now they might not be able to use you at that moment, but down the road a need for your services may arise, and when it does, they?ll think of you first.

Let me give you some examples from running the Art of Manliness. Back in 2009, Ted Slampyak contacted me saying how much he liked AoM, and volunteering to take part in our SWYMJ series. Three years passed (three years!), but this year, the site was finally generating enough revenue to do something I had wanted to do since starting AoM: hire an illustrator to do illustrations for some of our posts. When we were thinking about how to find someone who could do illustrations with an AoM feel, Kate said, ?Hey, how about that guy who did the SYWMJ interview? He does really cool stuff.? And so now Ted is our go-to guy for all our illustration needs.

Second case in point:

When I originally started AoM in January 2008, I did all the design work myself. For a law student with no web or graphic design experience, I did okay, but I knew the site could look a whole lot better if a professional applied their talents to it. Enter Eric Granata. Eric has been reading AoM since the beginning and was an active participant in our first version of the AoM forums. In early 2008, Eric reached out in an email introducing himself as a fellow Okie, AoM fan, and web designer. He volunteered his services for any graphic and web design needs that we might have. I had a small project that I needed done, and Eric did it completely gratis as a way to say thanks for the content on AoM.

We were so impressed with Eric?s work, we kept going back to him for other projects, but this time as a paying customer. In 2009, we hired Eric to do a complete redesign of AoM. The site you?re looking at today is Eric?s handiwork. We?ve become a regular paying client of Eric?s, and it all started with him taking the?initiative and volunteering his services.

I could go on with more examples, but I think you get the idea. Start offering your services to people, and planting as many seeds as you can. They may not sprout immediately, but could very well bear fruit down the road.

And, it should go without saying, but even if you do that first thing for a potential client for free or at a discount, knock it out of the park! It?s basically your interview for a job. Wow the client with what you can do, and he?ll wonder what he ever did without you and eagerly start throwing more fully paid work your way. Half-ass it and your window of opportunity will close.

Take the Initiative!

So why do these initiative-taking methods work so well? Well, believe or not, companies have just as hard a time finding good people, as good people do finding good jobs. Put yourself in the shoes of the person doing the hiring?they?ve got stacks of applications to look through and it?s hard to distinguish on paper who might be worth calling in for an interview. It takes a lot of work to make that decision. By showing some initiative, you help do some of the work for them, as it shows you have moxie and ambition and that you really want this job: qualities that represent a big percentage of what they?re looking for in an employee.

Now taking the initiative in your job search doesn?t mean you?ll land your dream job tomorrow. But it is guaranteed to get you hired faster than waiting around for your next job to land in your lap.

What?s been your experience in taking the initiative when looking for a job? Share your advice with us in the comments!

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3DS Mod - Can Debtors Afford Bankruptcy? Finding LowCost ...

There appears palpably inside the environment, one ominous more burden for the average intensely indebted American debtor and consumer inside todays dire nationwide financial conditions whom will perhaps see his only recourse for several relief, inside filing bankruptcy: acquiring low-cost bankruptcy, acquiring low-cost bankruptcy which you can afford. Meaning, inside essence, a non-lawyer professional se alternative.

The current figures just released by the Administrative Office of the U.S. Bankruptcy Courts on the February 2009 bankruptcy filings, made one vital fact crystal well-defined to nearly every one, namely, which the pace at which the increasingly overburdened and restive American borrowers both people and businesses are filing for bankruptcy, is at its highest degrees since the now-famous or infamous, many would state! draconian changes of 2005 to the U.S. bankruptcy law. However, actually more greatly, which the new filing rate is ominously beginning to return to the older ?hated? excellent bankruptcy filing degrees which the country had hit before which new law was passed inside 2005, supposedly meant to correct and drastically curtail or reverse the then pre-existing excellent filing degrees.

This current trend inside American debtor bankruptcy filings strongly underscores a limited fundamental things, and others. First, the detail and gravity of the financial straights and difficulties inside that the average American consumer and debtor is in today. Second, the fact which, regardless how complicated a legal challenge and hindrance the institutional powers which be the Congress, the lawyers, or the financial institutions, the courts, etc will try to put on the route of the American borrowers to try discouraging or creating it more challenging to them inside seeking the bankruptcy relief of their debt problems, whenever it really comes time of dire financial and financial crisis, Americans may somehow nonetheless find a way, and may nonetheless persevere and persist actually against all chances, inside demanding their constitutional liberties to be heard inside bankruptcy; and thirdly, the critical necessity, for the average debtor, for acquiring low-cost bankruptcy filing alternatives to representative.

Elizabeth Warren, a Harvard Law School professor and author of several books on bankruptcy, probably sums up the aim best this technique, alluding to the persuasion of the Congress by various particular interests to pass the 2005 law which restricted borrowers from filing for bankruptcy: ?The credit business [and other vested interests] did its best to drive up the price of filing [for bankruptcy]. But when families are inside sufficient trouble, they may battle their technique from the paper ticket and higher attorneys costs to get aid,? adding which ?The term has become leaking out [once again] which the bankruptcy courts are open for business.?

THE ?UNOFFICIALLY BANKRUPT DEBTORS? ? DEBTORS WHO CANT FILE BECAUSE THEY CANT AFFORD IT

But, actually many importantly than which, within the standpoint of the average bankruptcy-seeker today, this raises one fundamental queries, however. Namely, just how do the present growing army of increasingly despairing American borrowers whom not merely seek to file for individual or business bankruptcy, employing a lot of cases, truly NEED to file one, AFFORD to file bankruptcy ? inside certain, the excellent lawyers legal expense of filing for bankruptcy? How do these borrowers get or find low-cost bankruptcy? A bankruptcy which borrowers may reasonably afford?

Some one.1 thousand one,064,000 American borrowers recorded for bankruptcy this past 2008 year ? filings that, many analysts are rapid to prompt us, were carried out by these borrowers despite, and below tough conditions of, a whole host of stringent, restrictive specifications and drastically improved legal costs imposed by the 2005 law. But, actually more immense, within the stand aim of the debtor or bankruptcy-seeker, is another closely connected FACT: which, worse nonetheless, according to specialists, THERES NEARLY AS MANY AMERICAN DEBTORS MORE whom planned to file for bankruptcy and are suitable, however, can not, considering they merely couldnt AFFORD the lawyers legal costs. These are borrowers whom Justin Harelik, a bankruptcy representative with Price Law inside Los Angeles, call the ?unofficially bankrupt debtors? ? borrowers that are all however, bankrupt however, just shortage the lawyers significant cost to create their status official!

YEARLY NUMBER OF BANKRUPTCY FILINGS SINCE 1998
Source: creditslips.org

Year??.Bankruptcy??. Filings??? Source & Notes
1998??.1,442543???.AO information??Office of U.S. Courts
1999??.1,319,465???AO information
2000??.1,253.444???A.O information
2001??.1,492-129???AO information
2002??.1,577,561??..AO information
2003??.1,589,383???AO information
2004??.1,597,462???AO information
2005??.2,078,415???AO information??..involves spike inside filings before 2005 bkr. law
2006??.590,544???..AACER information?Automated Access to Court Records
2007??.826,665???..AA.CER information
2008??.1,064,000???AACER data

EVEN THE LAWYERS AGREE, THEIR BIG FEES IS A PROBLEM WITH DEBTORS

In deed, though many bankruptcy lawyers would quite it be sugar-coated, other lawyers, themselves, objectively acknowledge which the lawyers legal costs for bankruptcy is a principal frequent problem and concern to borrowers and clients inside bankruptcy law follow.

?You need to pay the Chapter 7 legal costs upfront inside cash. You are able to be too poor to go bankrupt,? is how Professor Robert M. Lawless of the University of Illinois College of Law once said.

Another observer, Jenny C. McCune, a contributing editor at Bankrate.com, notes which quite astoundingly, weve today come to the aim where a debtor will have to ?finance bankruptcy filing,? adds: ?It will sound like a Catch-22?you have zero money thus youre filing for bankruptcy, however you want [legal fee] money thus you can file for bankruptcy.?

Jonathan Ginsburg, bankruptcy lawyer, Atlanta, Ga., explains which inside phone conversations he usually has with callers facing extreme financial crises that are thinking potential bankruptcy, following their first doubt that is usually general inside type, ?The upcoming doubt I get has to do with fees: If I have zero money, how am I imagined to pay for a representative??

LAWYERS TRADITIONAL ARGUMENT FOR THEIR HIGH FEES

Bankruptcy lawyers, schooled inside the art of argumentation and the defense of actually the clearly indefensible, very whenever it centers on the security of a profitable signifies of creating a lifestyle, would usually plunge into what, inside essence, are really deep philosophical reasons inside justification of the excellent costs they charge ? it is actually really nonetheless a ?bargain? for borrowers, thinking about the much larger sums they stand to discharge inside bankruptcy; if your debtor is ?really? hard pressed sufficient by his debt burden and is ?serious? regarding freeing himself of it, hell somehow find a way; a debtor, when he or she is absolutely ?serious,? may always find the lawyers costs around by, state, withholding the installments he would have had to create to different lenders and then utilizing it to pay the representative to free him of the bigger debt burden, etc., etc. It is a complex web of reasons that would have to wait for a later date to address. However, for our present immediate purposes inside this particular article, the relevant problem is crystal well-defined. The aim, clearly, is the fact that for the average American debtor today, already bringing within the excellent debt burden that is the prime object hes out trying to address from bankruptcy filing, the average lawyers fee for bankruptcy several $2,000 or more for the easiest Chapter 7 bankruptcy, and $4,500+ for its Chapter 13 counterpart is excellent, inside deed actually excessive, and frequently is just plain beyond his signifies ? in a word, merely UNAFFORDABLE.

LAWYERS FEES HAVE ?PRICED OUT? A LOT OF DEBTORS

Seems which the bankruptcy lawyers, from greed and monopolistic instinct, are gradually pricing themselves from the individual bankruptcy filing business, which truly the only realistic alternative today left to be tried, appears to become a non-lawyer low-cost bankruptcy alternative.

?Surveys have shown which many attorneys have doubled their costs to deal with new specifications imposed by the BAPCPA of 2005. Many thousands of borrowers have consequently been priced from representative representation inside their bankruptcies,? claims Stephen Elias, a California lawyer and bankruptcy professional and author of several books on the subject. ?Because of rules regulating the follow of law, truly the only legal substitute for lawyer representation is self representation? bankruptcy petition preparers may assist with your paperwork.?

The aim then is crystal well-defined. The fundamental task at hand this extremely minute inside the field of bankruptcy, is devising a trustworthy program which is low-cost for filing bankruptcy, that is simple, simple, and readily accessible, and is, most importantly, AFFORDABLE to many borrowers whom legitimately seek or want bankruptcy and are qualified and suitable to file inside the given eligibility rules. It is, in the end, no ?gift? or some sort of ?favor? being meted out by ?the law,? or some sort of mercy-peddling do-gooders of the legal establishment. But, a direct sacred correct and present of the American Constitution.

It is a task that confronts us all, very the bankruptcy constituency and the bankruptcy business powers-that-be whom control the present bankruptcy program ? the financial and credit business, the courts, the Congress, however, including personal entrepreneurs and inspirations persons who is able to come up with new or fresh inspirations regarding how to correct the present broken individual bankruptcy program, and yes, the present bankruptcy lawyers and bar, and others.

But, of more immediacy and urgency inside the mean time, however, whilst you wait such a new program to be designed by the trustworthy parties, qualified American entrepreneurs, institutions and entities that are able, ought to be complimentary to create useful and beneficial means and methods ? alternatives to the present wholly deficient and limited lawyer-controlled bankruptcy program ? that allow legitimate bankruptcy seekers to exercise their legitimate constitutional correct to seek the bankruptcy relief alternative whenever and when mandatory ? merely and AFFORDABLY.

IN SUM

The point is the fact that, America, inside both its public and also personal fields, should quick prepare for, and create and apply, a drastically different however, beneficial bankruptcy filing program which provides the present thousand plus every year and the upcoming more millions of bankruptcy filers whom may be coming into the bankruptcy filing pipeline every year, a genuinely low-cost signifies to them to file for bankruptcy ? the one.4 thousand American filers or more which need to seek the bankruptcy relief inside 2009 calendar year alone, and beyond.

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Saturday, May 26, 2012

Some things my mother loved ? Fred's pages

My mother was a believing and committed Christian, a loving and supportive partner to my father, and gave her five children life in more than the basic way.? Yet through no fault of her own she had a hard life in many ways. ?In my last blog I explained why thinking about my mother often makes me feel somewhat sad.

But there were also things Mum loved and was passionate about, and unsurprisingly, what stood out for me has rubbed off on me.

Family

Mum could be at her best and happiest in the family setting, especially with some of her children and with her younger sister, Mia.? The strain we often saw and which was typically evident on photos would evaporate, she would relax and laugh, and although not in herself a humorous person she could show obvious enjoyment.

In a similar way I am not well equipped to give life to a party, and I am a much better listener than conversationalist.? My wife Helen remembers with some sadness that good table talk was not characteristic of my parents? home.? But when I?m together with our siblings or children I feel my happiest, especially when I can just be there and mostly listen.

Drawing

Mum gave up drawing after her youth, but certainly had the skills and eye for it.? The few drawings she kept from her early years bore that out.? And later, on a limited budget she chose some beautiful art works for her home and in later life she dressed well.

As she built her family, Mum started collecting photo and art images in a large brown leather covered family scrapbook which was a family treasure often opened up for talk and additions during our years at home.? To us as children it extended our appreciation of the beauty of our Dutch homeland and our wonder at the world: images and cut-outs of exotic animals, Dutch cities, villages and rustic scenes, beautiful flowers and fish, ships and aircraft, storybook characters, and beach holidays. ?When I reflect on this scrapbook now I realise it was perhaps Mum?s #1 way of making up somewhat for the cultural impoverishment that resulted from our family?s migration.? It also reflected her love of art, image and things beautiful.

Plants

The small income of my parents? early migration years moved my mother to put her love of the garden to work.? The large backyard of our first home in Sydney was soon transformed into a big and productive vegetable garden, and the house front got a touch up with easy-to-grow succulents she could start from free cuttings.

Our second home in Sydney underwent an immediate and similar transformation, with the addition of a shade-house and a chicken run for up to a dozen black and white chooks, each of which became a pet with an own name: Elizabeth, Sookie, Margaret?

Our vegetable garden, Kingston (1964)? the condition of the fence wasn?t under Mum?s control

The front flower garden in Kingston, Tasmania (1964)

Our third family home in Australia was in Kingston, Tasmania, and it was an even larger property that once again had been neglected and underwent a radical transformation, now very much with the support of her teenage children.? The long grass and blackberries were replaced by an even larger vegie garden ? and a second area became the potato patch.? The front garden was similarly made over with a large array of roses and other flowering plants, the more colour the better!

On retirement, my parents had a smaller home built on a smaller block, and although the garden was also reduced, there was now something left over for the cultivation of beautiful native and exotic shrubs and a growing collection of orchids.

Pets

Schiska and Snoopy (1970)

House pets were another passion of my mother.? She would tell us about the pet crow she had in her childhood and adolescence and the tricks it would get up to, even to unbuttoning clients? shoes in the town post office.

During the family years, my parents? household included the usual rabbits and turtles, a canary, several budgerigars and cats, the afore-mentioned hens, and finally a beautiful Burmese cat and Australian terrier, both donated by her veterinary son-in-law.

All of the above loves were just that: affectionately and faithfully cared for animals and plants, beautifully created collections of illustrations and art, a carefully and tastefully selected d?cor for her home.

Despite her personal pain, necessary frugality, and inevitable limitations, Mum certainly added her distinctive warmth, style and class to our family life.? I continue to honour and thank her.

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13 SMS Text Messaging Services for Marketing in the Mobile Age

Ninety nine percent of the time statistics can drive you to heavy drinking. In researching this post on SMS or Text Message Marketing, I wanted to find out how many people use text messaging, how quickly they are read, and are business owners using it as a way to reach customers.

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More than any other topic that I?ve written about recently, the data is all over the place:

  • Text Messages have a 98 percent read rate
  • Text Messages have a 100 percent open rate
  • Texts are typically read within 15 minutes of being received
  • Mobile phones have reached 100 percent penetration in the United States

Let?s go with something more trustworthy: Do you know very many adults without a mobile phone? How about business owners without one? Have you had a customer without a cell phone? Here?s the leap, but I have pretty good evidence it is true: If they have one, they likely use text messaging on it, too.

Text message marketing is a permission-based approach to sharing short updates or specials with your customers. It lends itself to point of sale or retail offers, but not entirely. My gut or intuition tells me that it?s a good way to share news, updates, ideas, and special offers with customers with whom you have a relationship and who express interest in signing up.

Here are 13+ services that can make it easy and affordable; some are completely free if you keep your efforts small and focused:

Fanminder is a great service that I?ve reviewed before and think has a lot to offer. They offer a combination of social, email, and mobile phone marketing. It is free to text to up to 100 numbers. Pricing starts at $15/month after that.

Signal is pretty robust and lets you send text messages, QR codes, barcodes, and mobile optimized web pages. You can do coupons, sweepstakes, polls and plans start at $29/month with a free trial.

TellMyCell is useful if you want to give your customers a specific keyword to text in and receive a special offer (or any response really). You can have unlimited contacts and unlimited groups, but you pay on a per message basis. You can pay-as-you-go for five cents per message or plans start at $29/month after free trial.

Trumpia sells texts in packaged units (i.e. 500 or 1,000) and they don?t expire. You can use them in your text message marketing in a variety of ways, from appointment reminders to event coordination to standard marketing messages. Plans start at $25/month with 30-day free trial.

ReachPeople.com charges by the number of contacts and number of messages. They have a full free plan with up to 25 messages and 100 contacts. Paid plans start at $29/month. I like that they had a voice broadcasting option if you wanted to leave a voicemail for a group.

Simple Texting has one of those sites that is just clear and easy to grasp and the main screen calls out to business owners. I like that. You can integrate with social media like Facebook and Twitter. Free 30-day trial, then $15/month for up to 250 messages.

CallFire offers a variety of telephone-based services like IVR (interactive voice response ? you know those automated attendant types) and a virtual call center service. But their SMS plan is a basic flat rate of three cents per message and it has a free trial.

SnapGiant knows that many small businesses (including restaurants and food service businesses) ?use text message marketing and their page gently reflects that. You only pay for outgoing messages, not incoming, and unused messages roll over to the next month (that?s kind of cool). Plans start at $19.95/month after free 30-day trial.

Mozeo is another text platform with flat message pricing ? five cents per message. Unlimited contacts, unused messages roll to the next month. You pay a one-time charge for keywords (as in your customer texts in PIZZA to your number to get a special offer). You get 10 free text messages to trial the service.

TXT180 offers 500 messages for $14.95 per month. Discounted to only $9.95/month if you prepay for 12-month contract. No free trial.

SMS Marketing has a one-time flat rate of $35 to setup your web-based text messaging account, then a per message fee. You get unlimited autoresponders and can schedule text message offers with ease. It even comes with one free keyword.

TextMagic is a text messaging service that you don?t even need a phone to use. You can forward your emails to this SMS service, too. You buy credits in 200 pack increments starting at $27. I discovered this UK-based service via a terrific post at the Content Marketing Institute: Why SMS is a Must for a Younger Audience.

Betwext is one of the only text message marketing companies that had unlimited keywords (which could be important if you intend to do a lot of different campaigns) and a low rate of only one cent per message. There is no monthly fee and that?s sure to shake up the marketplace.

Some Bonuses:

If you simply want to replace your mobile phone text plan for something less expensive, these five options are worth a look:

Go SMS Android App. Free texting. Handcent is another.

JaxtrSMS is sort of like Skype but just for texting. If you text another Jaxtr user, it?s free. Otherwise a low message fee based on destination country. Makes international texting pretty easy.

Kik Messenger ?is texting for smartphones. Or more like texting with an instant messenger feel. Free.

Google Voice? is a free voice-over-IP phone (like Skype) but offers free texting, too.? You can send to up to five people at one time.

GroupMe is part of Skype and is a novel way to text a group of people. Totally free. Might not work in a business situation with a group of customers, but might be good for internal teams.

If you just want to be able to get Twitter or Facebook updates on a mobile device, but not cell phone type text messages, then Boxcar for iPhone, iPod Touch, and iPad?is a notification app that allows you to get updates from many different web services (Curdbee, FourSquare, GitHub, Google Voice, just to name a few more). Free for the iOS world. Android and PC versions coming.

Notifo is another that handles notifications to the iOS platform.

If you?ve been contemplating how to offer your customers a way to get special marketing offers, via cell phone, then one of these 13 text messaging solutions will help. Like all services we review, I try to pick ones with transparent, affordable pricing and that make it easy for a busy small business owner to figure out. Let us know what services you?ve been using in the comments below.


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Gadget Of The Week: The Parrot AR.Drone 2.0

parrot-drone-2There are plenty of ways to get your flight school kicks with your smartphone or tablet ? this missile shooting Griffin chopper comes to mind ? but few manage to ooze as much style (or cost as much money) as Parrot?s AR.Drone 2.0. Getting the thing ready to fly is surprisingly simple. Once you?ve popped the battery into place, and turned the thing on, the Drone creates its own Wi-Fi network that the control device connects to. From there, just fire up the FreeFlight app on your iOS or Android device and you?re off to the races.

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Thursday, May 24, 2012

Rugged Android Tablet Redefines Tonka-Tough... and Ugly [Overkill]

Designed to be used by those who are actively getting shot at in warzones, not just those of us who are clumsy with our gadgets, the new Rampage 6 tablet is even more rugged than Panasonic's Toughbook tablet. Though, far less capable. More »


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Fort Bliss and El Paso TX Blog | Buyer's Agent: New home buyers ...

Want to know how your builder stacks up against others visit the Better Business Bureau. If you are preparing to purchase a new home from the ground up, as a Texas Realtor, I strongly recommend using the services of a certified construction inspector. Many buyer?s forego a home inspection because they are persuaded by a builder?s rep. not to bother with this expense since their home is covered bumper-to-bumper for the first year. Don?t fall for this trick. These representative are selling a product and are paid to move the builder?s inventory of homes. If you bought a new home without the help of an El Paso Buyer?s Agent you were at a huge disadvantage. The house does not cost more when you are represented by a licensed El Paso REALTOR whose job it is to protect your interest. Many first time buyers are dazzled by all the ?freebees? that they are made to feel guilt-ridden about hiring their own agent. I?ve been representing buyers since 1994 and have learned that builder?s use this psychology to ?create a sense of indebted or obligation by marketing free appliances, free landscaping, up to 6% in bonuses or benefits.? What they don?t tell buyers is that if the buyer uses the builder?s preferred lender the builder is already saving about 3% (in many cases the builder has a financial interest in the preferred lender).

Here is how El Paso East side Builder?s stack up according to BBB in last 3 years:

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Accent Homes

Zero complaints

Bic Homes LLC

1 product complaint

Desert View Homes

9 product related, 1 warranty issue

DME Homes

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Mountain Vista Builders

5 complaints, 3 product related and 2 warranty issues

Saratoga Homes

6 of 7 ?complaints closed with BBB in last 3 years were product related

Winton & Assoc

3 product related and 1 warranty issue

Zia Homes

4 warranty issues, 3 product related

If you have an experience with one of these builders or any new construction home buyer issues please post your comments.

To report a complaint with the BBB click here

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Summit canceled as Ukraine isolation deepens over treatment of Tymoshenko

Ukraine was slated to host a summit this week, but with a dozen European leaders boycotting in protest of Kiev's treatment of Yulia Tymoshenko, Ukraine opted to cancel it instead.

By Fred Weir,?Correspondent / May 8, 2012

A woman is seen in a tent for supporters of jailed opposition leader Yulia Tymoshenko in Kiev, Monday, May 7. Tymoshenko was sentenced to seven years in prison last October for 'abuse of office' while she was prime minister.

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In a stinging humiliation that underscores Ukraine's increasing isolation, President Viktor Yanukovych today bowed to a boycott by a dozen European leaders angry over treatment of opposition leader Yulia Tymoshenko, indefinitely postponing a prestigious summit meeting it was to have hosted this week in the Crimean resort of Yalta.

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"Due to the fact that a number of European heads of states are unable to attend the summit of presidents of the Central European Countries in Yalta, Ukraine found it reasonable to postpone it until a later date," Alexander Dykusarov, a Foreign Ministry spokesman, said in a terse statement.

The event was meant to showcase Ukraine's growing integration into the European community, and to set the stage for Ukraine's co-hosting, along with Poland, of the Euro 2012 soccer championships ? a huge event in the life of all Europeans ? next month.

Instead, the growing impression is that Ukraine is falling out of the European orbit and drifting back into Moscow's embrace.

Leaders of Germany, Estonia, Latvia, the Czech Republic, Austria, Italy, and others have refused to attend the annual regional meeting in an escalating row over the alleged mistreatment of Ms. Tymoshenko,?who was sentenced to seven years in prison last October for "abuse of office" while she was prime minister. She also faces a fresh trial on charges of alleged tax evasion, which is scheduled to open in a Kharkov court later this month.

Tymoshenko, who says all the charges are politically motivated, is currently on a hunger strike and alleges that she has been beaten in prison. She also says she is suffering from severe chronic back pain brought on by her ordeal, and has criticized her treatment by state doctors in a Kharkov clinic. Her family wants her to go to Germany for treatment, but she refuses to leave Ukraine. In any case, there seems little chance the Yanukovych government would let her leave.

She was scheduled to be seen by German doctors at a Kharkov clinic today.

"She has not abandoned her hunger strike and she will not abandon it until the question of her situation has been resolved," Tymoshenko's lawyer, Olexandr Plakhotnyuk, told journalists today. "She is drinking only water. What will take place next will be decided after she meets doctors today."

Tymoshenko was narrowly defeated in presidential elections by Yanukovych two years ago, and was rapidly removed from all her official positions shortly afterward.

She remains Ukraine's top opposition leader, and her prosecutions by the Yanukovych government are widely suspected of being a means of removing her from the political stage in advance of parliamentary elections slated for later this year. Ukraine's next presidential polls will be held in 2015.

Calls are now mounting for a boycott of Ukrainian venues for the Euro 2012 soccer matches which, if it happens, will strike hard at Yanukovych's personal prestige and the sensitivities of all Ukrainians.

The foreign ministry in Kiev warned last week that any targeting of the soccer championship to punish Yanukovych would "damage the interests of millions of ordinary Ukrainians that vote for various political parties or who are not interested in politics at all."

Ukraine has at least one reliable friend in freshly inaugurated Russian president Vladimir Putin, who has dismissed any suggestion that Moscow might join such a boycott, saying "you can't mix politics, business, and other issues with sport."

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Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Therapy Pets ? Who has done Subcutaneous Fluid Therapy for their ...

My 13 year old cat was diagnosed with renal failure today??and now I have to make the difficult decsion on do we treat or not. Will have to give her liquids every day for hte rest of her life, and its unclear how long she would live. I hate the thougth of losing her, but what is the qulity of life like for cats who undergo this treatment?

I have given this to a few cats, 2 of which were my cats with CRF, both about 10 yrs ago. It may seem at first like it will be awful to stick that needle in your cat, but it is not hard to learn and the cats seem to figure out after not too long that they feel SO much better shortly after they get the fluids.
The sites

http://www.felinecrf.com

http://www.felinecrf.org

have a lot of info about the disease and its treatment including giving fluids. There are some videos you can find online that show how to do it, some from vets,
for example: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1LSppGcrQ3Y&feature=PlayList&p=8AEDC4CE630E6A1A&playnext_from=PL&index=0
others just from regular people who have made videos of giving fluids to their own cats, for example http://weirdstuffwemake.com/weird/stuff/pets/cats/sophia/catjuice.html

Quality of life as well as quantity would depend how much kidney function your kitty has left and how well this as well as any needed meds, limitation of phosphorus in diet etc. will help to treat symptoms and slow or stop progression of the disease (yes sometimes it is arrested for quite a while)
In the case of my own cats they lived about a year after diagnosis. But one of them had been badly burned in a major fire before I adopted him and the vet thought that might have damaged his kidneys ? he got CRF at only age 7.
Since then there have been advancements in the treatment and it seems like more cats are living multiple years, in some cases 5+ years, before their quality of life deteriorates to the point that euthanasia is the best choice.

I really think moving away from the low protein diet (for example Hill?s k/d) that used to be the standard treatment has helped many cats, because that diet caused a lot of other problems that would then get ascribed to the disease itself. That might work better with dogs but cats need more protein, that is the main fuel they run on. ( Some vets still use that older treatment but the more up to date approach is to limit the phosphorus and focus on the quality of the protein.) Also there are new meds etc used now that have been found to help.

Quality of life will also depend on your cat?s personality and how well she tolerates the treatment. But I would not predict in advance that a cat will not tolerate it. One of the cats i gave it to had even been abused before and used to be very untrusting of people and was still a nervous cat, so I worried that he would hate it and it would destroy the trust we had slowly built up. But he turned out to really get along well ? he let not only me but other family members give him his fluids and would sit there purring and then just go on his way. he seemed to somehow understand we were trying to help him. maybe he came to associate it with how much better he felt very soon afterward.

Of course there?s no guarantee. but I would be inclined to give it a try for a while and see. you may be surprised how much better she feels and how well you are able to treat her. and you may find that you become even closer to your cat.

If you do decide not to treat it you need to have her euthanized now to stop her from suffering.
Good luck to you and your cat, whatever you decide.

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What Does It Mean to Educate the Whole Child? | Class[room ...

by Nel Noddings
from Educational Leadership
September 2005 | Volume 63 | Number 1
The Whole Child Pages 8-13

In a democratic society, schools must go beyond teaching fundamental skills.

Public schools in the United States today are under enormous pressure to show?through improved test scores?that they are providing every student with a thorough and efficient education. The stated intention of No Child Left Behind (NCLB) is to accomplish this goal and reverse years of failure to educate many of our inner-city and minority children. But even if we accept that the motives behind NCLB are benign, the law seems fatally flawed.

Some critics have declared NCLB an unfunded mandate because it makes costly demands without providing the resources to meet them. Others point to its bureaucratic complexity; its unattainable main goal (100 percent of students proficient in reading and math by 2014); its motivationally undesirable methods (threats, punishments, and pernicious comparisons); its overdependence on standardized tests; its demoralizing effects; and its corrupting influences on administrators, teachers, and students.

All these criticisms are important, but NCLB has a more fundamental problem: its failure to address, or even ask, the basic questions raised in this issue of Educational Leadership: What are the proper aims of education? How do public schools serve a democratic society? What does it mean to educate the whole child?

The Aims of Education
Every flourishing society has debated the aims of education. This debate cannot produce final answers, good for all times and all places, because the aims of education are tied to the nature and ideals of a particular society. But the aims promoted by NCLB are clearly far too narrow. Surely, we should demand more from our schools than to educate people to be proficient in reading and mathematics. Too many highly proficient people commit fraud, pursue paths to success marked by greed, and care little about how their actions affect the lives of others.

Some people argue that schools are best organized to accomplish academic goals and that we should charge other institutions with the task of pursuing the physical, moral, social, emotional, spiritual, and aesthetic aims that we associate with the whole child. The schools would do a better job, these people maintain, if they were freed to focus on the job for which they were established.

Those who make this argument have not considered the history of education. Public schools in the United States?as well as schools across different societies and historical eras?were established as much for moral and social reasons as for academic instruction. In his 1818 Report of the Commissioners for the University of Virginia, for example, Thomas Jefferson included in the ?objects of primary education? such qualities as morals, understanding of duties to neighbors and country, knowledge of rights, and intelligence and faithfulness in social relations.

Periodically since then, education thinkers have described and analyzed the multiple aims of education. For example, the National Education Association listed seven aims in its 1918 report, Cardinal Principles of Secondary Education: (1) health; (2) command of the fundamental processes; (3) worthy home membership; (4) vocation; (5) citizenship; (6) worthy use of leisure; and (7) ethical character (Kliebard, 1995, p. 98). Later in the century, educators trying to revive the progressive tradition advocated open education, which aimed to encourage creativity, invention, cooperation, and democratic participation in the classroom and in lifelong learning (Silberman, 1973).

Recently, I have suggested another aim: happiness (Noddings, 2003). Great thinkers have associated happiness with such qualities as a rich intellectual life, rewarding human relationships, love of home and place, sound character, good parenting, spirituality, and a job that one loves. We incorporate this aim into education not only by helping our students understand the components of happiness but also by making classrooms genuinely happy places.

Few of these aims can be pursued directly, the way we attack behavioral objectives. Indeed, I dread the day when I will enter a classroom and find Happiness posted as an instructional objective. Although I may be able to state exactly what students should be able to do when it comes to adding fractions, I cannot make such specific statements about happiness, worthy home membership, use of leisure, or ethical character. These great aims are meant to guide our instructional decisions. They are meant to broaden our thinking?to remind us to ask why we have chosen certain curriculums, pedagogical methods, classroom arrangements, and learning objectives. They remind us, too, that students are whole persons?not mere collections of attributes, some to be addressed in one place and others to be addressed elsewhere.

In insisting that schools and other social institutions share responsibility for nurturing the whole child, I recognize that different institutions will have different emphases. Obviously, schools will take greater responsibility for teaching reading and arithmetic; medical clinics for health checkups and vaccinations; families for housing and clothing; and places of worship for spiritual instruction.

But needs cannot be rigidly compartmentalized. The massive human problems of society demand holistic treatment. For example, leading medical clinics are now working with lawyers and social workers to improve housing conditions for children and to enhance early childhood learning (Shipler, 2004). We know that healthy families do much more than feed and clothe their children. Similarly, schools must be concerned with the total development of children.

Democracy and Schools
A productive discussion of education?s aims must acknowledge that schools are established to serve both individuals and the larger society. What does the society expect of its schools?

From the current policy debates about public education, one would think that U.S. society simply needs competent workers who will keep the nation competitive in the world market. But both history and common sense tell us that a democratic society expects much more: It wants graduates who exhibit sound character, have a social conscience, think critically, are willing to make commitments, and are aware of global problems (Soder, Goodlad, & McMannon, 2001).

In addition, a democratic society needs an education system that helps to sustain its democracy by developing thoughtful citizens who can make wise civic choices. By its very nature, as Dewey (1916) pointed out, a democratic society is continually changing?sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse?and it requires citizens who are willing to participate and competent enough to distinguish between the better and the worse.

If we base policy debate about education on a serious consideration of society?s needs, we will ask thoughtful questions: What modes of discipline will best contribute to the development of sound character? What kinds of peer interactions might help students develop a social conscience? What topics and issues will foster critical thinking? What projects and extracurricular activities might call forth social and personal commitment? Should we assign the task of developing global awareness to social studies courses, or should we spread the responsibility throughout the entire curriculum (Noddings, 2005b)?

In planning education programs for a democratic society, we must use our understanding of the aims of education to explore these questions and many more. Unfortunately, public policy in the United States today concentrates on just one of the Cardinal Principles proposed by NEA in 1918: ?command of the fundamental processes.? Although reading and math are important, we need to promote competence in these subjects while also promoting our other aims. Students can develop reading, writing, speaking, and mathematical skills as they plan and stage dramatic performances, design classroom murals, compose a school paper, and participate in establishing classroom rules.

If present reports about the effects of NCLB on the education of inner-city and minority children are supported by further evidence, we should be especially concerned about our democratic future. Wealthier students are enjoying a rich and varied curriculum and many opportunities to engage in the arts, whereas many of our less wealthy students spend their school days bent over worksheets in an effort to boost standardized test scores (Meier & Wood, 2004). Such reports call into question the notion that NCLB will improve schooling for our poorest students. Surely all students deserve rich educational experiences?experiences that will enable them to become active citizens in a democratic society.

Life in a healthy democracy requires participation, and students must begin to practice participation in our schools. Working together in small groups can furnish such practice, provided that the emphasis is consistently on working together?not on formal group processes or the final grade for a product. Similarly, students can participate in establishing the rules that will govern classroom conduct. It is not sufficient, and it may actually undermine our democracy, to concentrate on producing people who do well on standardized tests and who define success as getting a well-paid job. Democracy means more than voting and maintaining economic productivity, and life means more than making money and beating others to material goods.

The Whole Child
Most of us want to be treated as persons, not as the ?sinus case in treatment room 3? or the ?refund request on line 4.? But we live under the legacy of bureaucratic thought?the idea that every physical and social function should be assigned to its own institution. In the pursuit of efficiency, we have remade ourselves into a collection of discrete attributes and needs. This legacy is strong in medicine, law, social work, business, and education.

Even when educators recognize that students are whole persons, the temptation arises to describe the whole in terms of collective parts and to make sure that every aspect, part, or attribute is somehow ?covered? in the curriculum. Children are moral beings; therefore, we must provide character education programs. Children are artistically inclined; therefore, we must provide art classes. Children?s physical fitness is declining; therefore, we must provide physical education and nutrition classes. And then we complain that the curriculum is overloaded!

We should not retreat to a curriculum advisory committee and ask, ?Now where should we fit this topic into the already overloaded curriculum?? Although we cannot discard all the fragmented subjects in our present school system and start from scratch, we can and should ask all teachers to stretch their subjects to meet the needs and interests of the whole child. Working within the present subject-centered curriculum, we can ask math and science teachers as well as English and social studies teachers to address moral, social, emotional, and aesthetic questions with respect and sensitivity when they arise (Simon, 2001). In high school math classes, we can discuss Descartes? proof of God?s existence (is it flawed?); the social injustices and spiritual longing in Flatland, Edwin Abbott?s 1884 novel about geometry; the logic and illogic in Alice?s Adventures in Wonderland; and the wonders of numbers such as ? and ?.

For the most part, discussions of moral and social issues should respond to students? expressed needs, but some prior planning can be useful, too. When a math teacher recites a poem or reads a biographical piece or a science fiction story, when she points to the beauty or elegance of a particular result, when she pauses to discuss the social nature of scientific work, students may begin to see connections?to see a whole person at work (Noddings, 2005a). Teachers can also look carefully at the subjects that students are required to learn and ask, ?How can I include history, literature, science, mathematics, and the arts in my own lessons?? This inclusion would in itself relieve the awful sense of fragmentation that students experience.

The benefits of a more holistic perspective can also extend beyond the academic curriculum and apply to the school climate and the issue of safety and security. Schools often tackle this problem the way they tackle most problems, piece by piece: more surveillance cameras, more security guards, better metal detectors, more locks, shorter lunch periods, more rules. It seems like a dream to remember that most schools 40 years ago had no security guards, cameras, or metal detectors. And yet schools are not safer now than they were in the 1960s and 1970s. We need to ask why there has been a decline in security and how we should address the problem. Do we need more prisonlike measures, or is something fundamentally wrong with the entire school arrangement?

Almost certainly, the sense of community and trust in our schools has declined. Perhaps the most effective way to make our schools safer would be to restore this sense of trust. I am not suggesting that we get rid of all our security paraphernalia overnight, but rather that we ask what social arrangements might reduce the need for such measures. Smaller schools? Multiyear assignment of teachers and students? Class and school meetings to establish rules and discuss problems? Dedication to teaching the whole child in every class? Serious attention to the integration of subject matter? Gentle but persistent invitations to all students to participate? More opportunities to engage in the arts and in social projects? More encouragement to speak out with the assurance of being heard? More opportunities to work together? Less competition? Warmer hospitality for parents? More public forums on school issues? Reduction of test-induced stress? More opportunities for informal conversation? Expanding, not reducing, course offerings? Promoting the idea of fun and humor in learning? Educating teachers more broadly? All of the above?

We will not find the solution to problems of violence, alienation, ignorance, and unhappiness in increasing our security apparatus, imposing more tests, punishing schools for their failure to produce 100 percent proficiency, or demanding that teachers be knowledgeable in ?the subjects they teach.? Instead, we must allow teachers and students to interact as whole persons, and we must develop policies that treat the school as a whole community. The future of both our children and our democracy depend on our moving in this direction.

The habits we form from childhood make no small difference, but rather they make all the difference.??? ?Aristotle

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References
Dewey, J. (1916). Democracy and education. New York: Macmillan.
Jefferson, T. (1818). Report of the commissioners for the University of Virginia. Available: www.libertynet.org/edcivic/jefferva.html
Kliebard, H. (1995). The struggle for the American curriculum. New York: Routledge.
Meier, D., & Wood, G. (Eds.). (2004). Many children left behind. Boston: Beacon Press.
Noddings, N. (2003). Happiness and education. Cambridge, MA: Cambridge University Press.
Noddings, N. (2005a). The challenge to care in schools (2nd ed.). New York: Teachers College Press.
Noddings, N. (Ed.). (2005b). Educating citizens for global awareness. New York: Teachers College Press.
Shipler, D. K. (2004). The working poor: Invisible in America. New York: Alfred A. Knopf.
Silberman, C. E. (1973). The open classroom reader. New York: Vintage Books.
Simon, K. G. (2001). Moral questions in the classroom. New Haven, CT: Yale University Press.
Soder, R., Goodlad, J. I., & McMannon, T. J. (Eds.). (2001). Developing democratic character in the young. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass.

Nel Noddings resides in Ocean Grove, New Jersey, and is Lee L. Jacks Professor of Education, Emerita, at Stanford University, Stanford, California; noddings@stanford.edu.

Copyright ? 2005 by Association for Supervision and Curriculum Development

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