High school girls coach who wrote sex book put on leave

By Casey Toner ctoner@southtownstar.com August 31, 2012 1:07PM

Rich Central High School girl's basketball coach Bryan Craig. l Gary Middendorf~For Sun-Times Media

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Updated: August 31, 2012 5:06PM

The head coach of Rich Central High School?s girls varsity basketball team has been placed on paid administrative leave after writing a self-published book in which he describes in graphic detail his opinion on the vaginal differences between women of different races and says, ?the easiest kill for a man is through the young lady with low self-esteem.?

Rich Township High School District 227 Supt. Donna Simpson Leak said that school administrators have put the coach, who has tenure status, on leave pending a district review.

Head coach Bryan Craig, who also is a counselor at the Olympia Fields school, wrote various sexually explicit passages in his self-help book, ?It?s Her Fault,? which he published in July. Craig says he moonlights as a bouncer at an area strip club.

The book, which was edited by another teacher at the school, was written to give women the, ?upper hand in a relationship,? according to the foreword.

?The easiest kill for a man is through the young lady with low self-esteem,? Craig wrote in the book. ?Of course some will feel this is taking advantage, and yes it is. The ultimate goal for a man is to do all he can to eventually be able to commit and submit to a woman?s power.?

The book is available online in paper and electronic formats.

When reached by phone this week, Craig declined comment.

?He has his constitutional right to free speech,? Leak said on Thursday night before the decision was made to put Craig on leave. ?We are concerned, we don?t condone what?s in his book, and we are monitoring it so this doesn?t create a situation at the school.?

Board president Betty Owens blasted Craig?s book and said the matter is under investigation.

?It?s distasteful, it?s inappropriate, and it wouldn?t be on my list of things to read,? Owens said.

Last year Craig, who has led the school?s varsity girls basketball program since 2008, got into trouble with the IHSA after playing an ineligible transfer student. As a result, the team forfeited a majority of its regular-season wins.

Craig cites his experience at Rich Central in the book?s foreword, writing that he has spent most of his life ?surrounded by women.?

?I coach girls basketball, work in an office where I am the only male counselor, and am responsible for roughly 425 high school students a year, about half of whom are females,? Craig writes. ?Suffice it to say, I have spent a considerable amount of time around, and with, the fairer sex.?

Whether it was working as a mental health counselor at Mount Sinai Health Center in Chicago or with the Illinois Department of Children Family Services, he repeatedly told women they could control their relationships, Craig wrote. The point of the book, Craig wrote, is to give women a ?road map to having the upper hand in a relationship with a man.?

Craig wrote about his side gig doing security at ?a very popular gentlemen?s club in Chicago.? Working there, he wrote, allows him to let off steam, manage anger and irritation, and ?be nicer to my wife.?

Men at the strip club spend hundreds of one-dollar bills on strippers who whisper, ?I love you,? in their ears, he wrote.

?In some cases, strippers and dancers show the overall dominance a woman can have over a man,? Craig wrote. ?Not to say that stripping is what has to be done to truly establish dominance, but these women?s mind set is in the right place in order to meet the true potential of the point of this book.?

All men and women should be sexually promiscuous before getting married, Craig wrote. He wrote that women should experiment with penis sizes and men should ?understand the variation of the vagina.? He describes in graphic detail what he perceives to be the difference in vaginas of women from various races and ethnicities.

Craig also addresses his own sexual faults. And gets personal, writing that a woman he loved in college got pregnant, miscarried the child, and then told him she was cheating on him.

?From that moment forward, I vowed to never be put in that situation, and to mind-f--- every woman I could,? Craig wrote.

He then describes a method that allows women to juggle five different partners at once. He describes the strategy as ?the A through E:? your admirer, your ultimate admirer, your counselor, your sexual release, your ideal.

?And yes, you can have more than one (sexual release), just be careful, this one could kill you,? Craig wrote.

In the final chapter, Craig encourages readers to enter the ?wonderful world of submissiveness.?

?He?s your man, go ahead and let him turn you every which way, let him touch your hair if he asks, real or not,? Craig wrote. ?Give him oral sex without making the ?ugh? face.?

Craig also warns against telling people too many personal details.

?Speaking of business, our biggest downfall in relationships is sharing too much information with friends or associates,? Craig said. ?In general, (read it slowly) people do not want the best for you. This is why people watch race car driving: hoping to see some one crash.?

Source: http://www.suntimes.com/14850753-418/high-school-girls-coach-who-wrote-sex-book-put-on-leave.html

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